Soon to be part-time student and a full-time sailor. Majoring in Criminal Justice at UMUC starting Fall this year. More than excited!

• Many of us females do too much for our significant others that often lead us to expectations. Expectations lead to disappointments when satisfaction isn’t met… Obviously.
• Insecurities ruin everything. Rots the shit out of love. A lot of the time they won’t understand that. But they have their insecurities too… And most of the time we don’t understand that either. Little did we know, flaws and all are mutually accepted yet we still beat ourselves up over them.
• Men will be men. Adapt to their mindset. Play their game. You’ll be fine.
• You’re not stupid. Stop tryna play stupid thinking it’s cute.
• Oh, and don’t change the tone of your voice thinking that’s cute too. No.
• Stop hunting down a reason to leave him/her. He/she’s there, right? There is time devoted to you, right? This keen eye of yours hasn’t actually witnessed anything wrong, right? Bring it up if it bothers you that bad. Stop picking at every little move and questioning it to yourself. Build-up is the worst. We’re all bad liars. You’ll catch the truth with hesitated words and stutters. Until then, enjoy the present.
• Teammates. Not Siamese twins.
• Be exactly who you were when you were single. There’s obviously a reason why they liked your style in the first place. Never think that you have to change to keep them interested.
• Just trust until given a reason not to trust.
  
  “Have I given you a reason not to trust me?”